Mary, noun

offensive
1. [see quotation 1973.] A demeaning generic name given to a woman of Indian descent.
1927 R. Johnston in Outspan 15 Apr. 37To me there is always something fascinating in this part of Durban. On a Saturday morning I go for a walk along its garbage-littered streets where ‘Marys’ and ‘Sammies’ are feverishly chaffering for vegetables.
1968 K. McMagh Dinner of Herbs 18Their women folk, each called Mary, just as the Indian males were known as Sammy, hawked fruit and vegetables in flat baskets.
1970 P.C. Chambers Informant, Durban, KwaZulu-NatalEvery African male is a ‘boy’; every African female is a ‘girl’; every Indian male is a ‘Sammy’ and every Indian female is a ‘Mary’.
1971 J. McClure Steam Pig (1973) 88‘Shut up, Mary!’ Every Indian woman was Coolie Mary.
1973 Cape Herald 22 Sept. B2Because ‘Mariamma’ was a common name among Indian women and ‘Munsamy’ among the men, we were referred to as ‘Marys and Sammies’. This was considered to be insulting.
2. ?transferred sense. A demeaning generic name given to a Black woman (especially a domestic worker).
Note:
In Australian English, ‘Mary’ is an offensive name for an aboriginal woman.
1952 H. Klein Land of Silver Mist 58I went with Radebe to the Inchcape Hall, the Bantu night club. We saw ‘Jim’ and ‘Mary’ of everyday life in evening dress on the ballroom floor.
1970 G. Westwood Bright Wilderness 24When they came home Mary would have set the table and prepared the meals and Jim would polish the floors and mow the lawns.
1986 S. Sepamla in S. Ndaba One Day in June 23Thixo! we want to rejoice Celebrating the birth of a new age...No more Sixpence, John is neither here nor there, Mary lives no more for tea only!
A demeaning generic name given to a woman of Indian descent.
?transferred sense.A demeaning generic name given to a Black woman (especially a domestic worker).
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